The Power of Words and Mental Health
Aug 04 2025 18:06
Renee Kasuboski
The Power of Words and Mental Health
How a Simple Phrase Can Save a Life
Words carry weight—far more than we often realize. They shape how we see the world, how we define ourselves, and how we navigate the storms we face. In moments of despair, a single phrase—spoken, written, or remembered—can become the lifeline we didn’t know we needed.
When Words Become Lifesaving
Mental health challenges often bring isolation, shame, and hopelessness. In those moments, support doesn’t always come in the form of grand gestures. Sometimes, it’s a sentence—a whisper in the chaos—that sticks. That steadies. That saves.
For me, that phrase came during Basic Training.
My Drill Sergeant—gruff, unshakable, and intimidating—looked us dead in the eyes and barked:
“Never say die.”
At the time, I chalked it up to military bravado. But years later, after deployments, after trauma, after loss, and through deeply personal battles with my own mental health… those three words resurfaced. Not as a shout, but as a whisper in my soul. A reminder.
Don’t give up.
Don’t give in.
Not yet. Not today.
Why the Words We Carry Matter
The things we hear—and the things we tell ourselves—can either tear us down or build us back up. We may forget names, dates, or places… but we never forget how a single phrase made us feel in our darkest hour.
Words have power because:
- They shape our beliefs – The phrases we repeat become our inner dialogue.
- They influence emotions – Gentle, compassionate words soothe where harsh ones inflame.
- They give us resilience – Mantras, affirmations, and sayings can become armor.
- They forge connection – Hearing “you matter” can feel like someone reaching into the darkness.
- They remind us we’re not alone – Even if the person who said it is long gone, their words stay with us.
Whether it’s a therapist saying, “You’re not broken,” a friend whispering, “I’ve got you,” or even something you read in a book, these phrases can anchor us when everything else is drifting away.
What Phrase Pulled You Through?
If you're reading this, chances are you’ve had moments where you needed something to hold onto—anything. A quote. A prayer. A song lyric. A simple sentence that became your mantra.
What words brought you back?
What phrase helped you stand when you felt like collapsing?
Maybe it was:
- “This too shall pass.”
- “One breath at a time.”
- “You’ve survived 100% of your worst days.”
- “You are enough.”
We invite you to share your phrase. You never know who else might need it today.
Your voice—your story—could be the reason someone else finds hope.
You Are Not Alone
If you’re struggling, please know there is help, and there is hope.
Sometimes, it starts with a single message.
Text HOPELINE to 741741
Get connected to a trained crisis counselor for free, confidential, 24/7 support.
Because your words matter.
And so do you.